Domination can mean many things, but if you and he are taken by the idea, here are a few ways to get started that nearly anyone can enjoy, safely and easily. I have several times with my boyfriend and he does love it. First, if he is asking for this, he wants you to be in control. Tell him how hot it makes you to take control. I get from my breasts to toes kissed lol. Then, double lock the cuffs probably requires putting the tit on the top of the key into a slot on the handcuff to prevent further tightening.
Straddle his head and make him lick you. Over time, when he hears that tone of voice or sees that piece of jewelry, he — and you — will slip into the right mindset for playtime. My boyfriend and I are going to try a bit of tying up at the weekend. You can give your boyfriend a uniform — black trousers and shirt, or your favorite outfit of his — or keep him naked. Show him how to get you off with toys, and make him practice until he gets it right. Men with a domination fantasy often dream of a partner taking control of their orgasms.
Invest in a simple set of — these adjustable, washable Velcro straps attach to your bed in five minutes and turn it into a great place for safe, easy restraint. You might want to worry him by talking to your friend about the fact that he is cuffed and naked beside you depends on your friendship with your friend of course. Walk out with whatever you are going to use and tell him it is time. Still, some men become aroused through verbal abuse. Be sure to communicate, whenever you try something ask him if he likes it.
Making him address you with an honorific can really underscore the fact that you're in control; it gets right into his head. When you're all nice and relaxed, make him worship your body, running hands and lips over every part of it, taking his time and following your direction. If you want to have penetrative sex, have it in your favorite position and at your preferred pace. Would be right up my alley actually. For him, it's an opportunity to let the cares of the world go and focus entirely on you. Use only police quality handcuffs, not the cheap ones with a lever for double locking.
The possibilities are limitless ; Have fun! But imagine a few months later when he does it perfectly. He might be yearning to make love to you, but he won't get his chance until you say so, madam queen. When you do both, tell him to lick what you present him, do not tell him what it is, and then when he does, ask him how he likes it, ask him if there is anything that tastes better. On a later scene, add police-quality leg irons to his bondage. Finally, if you really need ideas, then check out some things on websites like link removed, which has a board with stories. Any tips or ideas anyone can share with me? There of coruse would remain questions about whether he wants you to inflict any pain or just tease him for a while.
You could always just leave him cuffed while you do something else - it might turn him on, for example, to know that you are phoning a friend and talking to her about 'normal' things, while perhaps ignoring him or playing with him. But yes the thrill and major component is he is trusting you with full control. I would reccommend only teasing, as bringing erotic-pain into it may be too much for you and him at first. If you already know what ngiht, and there is a normal time, make it earlier. And later you can laugh about the mistakes and the occasional awkwardness that brought you there. Revel in the freedom to do what you like, playing him like an instrument, while he can relax, knowing you've got him right where you want him.
If you get turned on, show him and tell him. The key with this is not doing more than what he's laid out, namely tying and blindfolding. A little formality will really bring home the fact that your boyfriend isn't calling the shots. Tease him, if he gets close, stop. Oral sex from him or to him is certainly possible while he is cuffed. Make sure you've got a safe word.
If he's wearing old cothes, you could always cuff him and then cut or rip his clothes off of him. Have some mind-blowing sex that's all about what you want. First, if you can, do not do it at a preset time. And then tell him that he better do a great job on your nipples, because he does not deserve to taste you yet. Have him wait on you hand and foot, even if you're just answering work emails. He loves visuals usually so I guess I will have to work harder than normal if he can't see. But control is at issue, and he wants you to be the boss, and probaly not pay him much heed if he complains.
Grab some massage oils and order him to give your back, neck, feet, and any other part of your body that needs it a rub down. Done right, being the boss of your boyfriend for an hour or an evening is a little bit like extending foreplay for hours, giving normally ordinary acts a sexual charge. Police quality gear is available online, but I hesitate to mention a particular source because that might appear to be advertising or spam. But do it as a surprise. And to get his own orgasm, he has to wait until you give him permission. Once you've gotten a bit more comfortable, you might try something more naughty, like spanking! Your boyfriend is trusting what basically amounts to his soft underbelly to you, and you're trusting him to allow you to take things a bit further than he might normally think of as his comfort zone pushing the boundary is fine, but don't break it! Maybe you use a feather duster. Make him admit he wants to eat you out.