You should have made sure a condom was on if you were going to do this. I do feel i was raped but i gave in bcuz he wouldnt let up! And because he is male, they always know they can walk away even if their partner gets pregnant because it is not them carrying the baby. Does anyone have advice on what to do or what his reasoning is because I really want to understand. . If he is too stupid to put a condom on, you should at least be the one that is sensible enough to either not have sex or insist he uses a condom. You have been on 2 dates!!!!!!!!!! It could be a sarcastic remark because he knows full well you two are being careless or not. Pre-cum can have sperm from the last ejaculation.
I guess im asking do u guys think hes trying to get me pregnant?? A female reader, , writes 9 November 2010 : Sorry but you have to take some responsiblity here! Well, last Thursday was kind of the same thing. It's like he is some kind of animal in heat. I've been on 2 dates with this amazing, handsome, well educated guy who is 27. I didn't stay there the whole time like a dead fish. Not perfect, but better than nothing. Before I have an awkward conversation with him, I figure I'd ask what you ladies think. Tagged as: , Question - 2 June 2010 2 Answers - Newest, 2 June 2010 A female age 30-35, anonymous writes: I'll try to make this short.
As for what he meant. Also, I believe that is a form of rape. He forced himself in you without protection and dismissed your concerns. We talked about it and all my joking and her joking truly reviled what we both really wanted. He knows I'm on some really powerful birthcontrol. If you're serious about this, you would have. He said to me the o Last time you know some guys try to get women pregnant on purpose just so he can claim her.
I think my bf is trying to get me pregnant. What would you do if you found out you got herpes? I don't understand what you mean when you say if I don't give him a baby he'll find someone who will. I've had a Friend with Benefits for about 4 months. If only you were as worried about getting pregnant or a disease when you start each session -- have you never heard about sperm in pre-cum? I wish I would have reached down to check. To top off I haven't been able to ever orgasm from sex and we've been together for 5 years.
But then we did it and he came inside me before the wk was up. He gets to have the fun and you're the one who cleans up the mess. Let me jump right in. I think the temptation was just too much for him, and he probably saw his statement as a heads up lol. A female reader, , writes 9 November 2010 : I agree with maverick, you both are being careless.
He was thinking Hedonistically and not about you. Yes, the chances from getting pregnant from that are small, but why take a chance at all? He has no commitment to you. He was thinking Hedonistically and not about you. And that is how I got pregnant the first time. I'm 20 and just graduated from college.
To top off we've had numerous discussions about kids over the last few months because our best friends and his cousins all have kids. As far as the whole precum situation. You say you dont want kids, you say you dont like abortion - so why on earth are you letting him have sex with you without protection?! Before I have an awkward conversation with him, I figure I'd ask what you ladies think. I'm not here to judge you. Do you want to limit your dating pool even more? You do not need a baby right now, and if in a year his life would be in a better place relationship wise then wait. I would think twice about this relationship. I have had multiple convo's with him and still nothing has changed.
The last two months he's been trying to have sex with me without a condom. You're both being careless, so don't put all the blame on him. I applaud you for taking Plan B but if you do not want a pregnancy, use birth control pills. As you indicated, Plan B covers you for that. I stayed on my belly because.
The reality is that if you are mature enough to be having sex, then you are mature enough to put your foot down with your boyfriend and not have sex for a week, or accept the consequences that you could very easily get pregnant. He did it again like twice after and said wow hope the shot wrks cause otherwise. Ever wonder why rich or well off women with it going on are dating bums? As far as the whole precum situation. But you are participating in sexual intercourse without birth control. Or am i overthinking it and it was probly just my own fluids?? This whole situation was born out of neither of us wanted to be on the hunt for marriage. It is really simple and easy to pick up and spread amongst a group of people quickly.