This is not the person married. I've got no one to talk to 'cause I don't want to criticize him to people who know him. I'd be willing to wager a cold six-pack that you have no idea how badly you actually suck in the bedroom. Look, there are some things that are deeply ingrained. There were mesmerizing monologues on the power of exercise and holier-than-thou rants about the less holier-than-thou.
No execersize, not eating better, nothing. I still have love for my husband. If anything, he gained more weight. My husband is fat, but that is not my issue. I often feel like such a bad wife for not wanting to do anything with my husband. I did not see this when we were dating. A second gym membership close to work.
I cook every meal from scratch at home, using healthy, organic ingredients. He is also constantly making comments about other people's weight issues. I cannot share with him anything related to my school because he will not understand. Chuckle if you want, but take it from moi: even , you're probably a whole lot closer to schlepping your six or seven boxes of comic books and old football trophies up to your new crib than you can even imagine. Most of that weight is in her stomach, too. My husband has severe asthma and periodically has to take prednisone, which makes him gain weight even though he continues to eat normally.
And look at what always ends up happening. If by temporary you mean the two years that passed before he rediscovered his passion for fitness. A bright red punching bag hanging from the basement ceiling that bopped me on the head each time I did laundry as if trying to knock some sense into me. This came up after we discussed having children but his doctor said his fertility might be low because of his weight. I often wonder if I can do better. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try.
And, unfortunately, if he is not motivated to lose weight, and he has no desire to want to, then it will be an uphill battle, and his waistline and stomach will continue to grow. I told him I loved him very much, that he is a great father, great husband but I am not physically attracted to him because of his large belly. These guys need to pull their heads out of their rear ends. My husband is wonderful he is prince charming but I can't get over the weight. I was a naive, 17-year-old college freshman. My husband is now so obese it has taken over most of our life. That night he gave me the silent treatment as well.
Even worse than the snoring, is when the noise stops. I have been thinking about my husband a lot lately. But so is the sight of my naked husband. He usually quits right in the middle of it. I am not a marriage counselor nor do I have any background in counseling. I am only 27 years old and have been married going on 3 years. It's been 4 years after that divorce.
They think women should like them because of the stereotype that women are more about personality. A female reader, anonymous, writes 21 September 2010 : More of the same. Life can throw an infinite amount of challenging circumstances your way, your husband being fat is not the end of the world, and should certainly not be the end of your marriages. Once that happened, my sex life with my husband became infrequent, then essentially non-existent. Of course, I love my wife. I have tried to motivate him. It needs a lot of work and he is great at fixing things.
About the author Hi, though my real name is not Soliel, it is the name I have chosen to represent myself here. The additional weight was making some things a bit more of a challenge, of course. He needs a strong wife to tell him what to do, but I don't like to be that kind of wife. My husband knows about him, and we are not having any fuss about this man, and I am not fussing with him about his young girlfriend. A reader, anonymous, writes 22 June 2013 : I have been married for years. I am often embarrassed of him.
A female reader, , writes 2 June 2011 : It's very nice to know that I am not alone in this situation. Also, it sounds like maybe drinking is at the heart of this. We love to travel but now he needs a seatbelt extender to ride in an airplane and if I don't have the seat next to him we have to wait until there is a flight available that has 2 seats together. He began to eat his losses, literally. He always says he is too tired or makes up some lame excuse, but he is never too tired to stuff his increasingly fat face! He tried arguing, coaxing, cajoling, buying flowers, guilt trips, you name it.
He is 50lbs overweight and it is mostly in is stomach. I will be the most happy wife in this world if he is in shape and healthier. And speaking of bathroom; he can't stand to pee because he can't see past his belly. I've tried being nice, I've tried being mean, I've tried different methods I've learned to motivate my own patients, and I have more success with them than my own husband. I sleep in a recliner. Do I really want to be satisfied by a plastic vibrating dildo my husband is holding? I said I want him to start to get up early and go to bed early 11:00 p.